Mutual relationship verification—on your terms. HesTaken helps couples claim, celebrate, and protect their relationship with private controls, meaningful reminders, and member-only experiences.
To unite two people in one shared, active commitment—and to protect that bond once it’s made. He’s Taken exists so couples can claim each other on their own terms, guard their relationship with privacy and mutual consent, and celebrate the moment they chose one another, together.
HesTaken is designed around consent, privacy, and choice. It is not a people-search site and does not make claims about anyone’s faithfulness, availability, or character.
Create a membership and invite your partner through a secure contact method.
Each partner independently verifies and chooses whether to activate mutual status.
Use the Relationship Hub for reminders, gifts, date planning, rewards, and local offers.
Annual plans are the best value. Live billing, identity verification, and text messaging will activate only after provider setup and legal review.
Registration included. Renews annually at $99 unless canceled.
Monthly option planned: $40 setup, then $8.99/month.
Registration included. Renews annually at $49 unless canceled.
Monthly option planned: $25 setup, then $5/month.
Set private reminders for anniversaries, birthdays, first dates, proposals, and the moments that matter.
Build wish lists, discover gifts, and get timely ideas before a meaningful date sneaks up on you.
Explore date nights, reservations, experiences, and membership rewards that make commitment feel special.
HesTaken will curate opt-in local and national partners. Members choose whether to receive occasion-based ideas; relationship information is never sold or shared for advertising.
Curated member offers and thoughtful planning ideas—only when a member elects to see them.
Curated member offers and thoughtful planning ideas—only when a member elects to see them.
Curated member offers and thoughtful planning ideas—only when a member elects to see them.
Curated member offers and thoughtful planning ideas—only when a member elects to see them.
Curated member offers and thoughtful planning ideas—only when a member elects to see them.
Curated member offers and thoughtful planning ideas—only when a member elects to see them.
Each year, a free gift is awarded to the person being claimed— sourced from one of our partner brands. Eligible annual relationship members can choose a member appreciation gift after renewal: a FLY COMB item, OnlyTequilas apparel, or future HesTaken merchandise. The reward recognizes ongoing membership only; it is not a statement about anyone’s conduct or relationship.
Both people choose to participate before any relationship verification becomes active.
Either partner can deactivate verification immediately—no public history, no explanation required.
A Member Check can only show active mutual verification. It never confirms someone is single, available, or faithful.
Florists, restaurants, jewelers, salons, photographers, hotels, and experience brands can join the future Local Love Marketplace through curated placements, member offers, or qualified booking opportunities. We will only market to members who opt in.